Did you ever start some kind of weight loss programme only to find your partner - who was kind of participating because otherwise he wasn't getting fed - lost more weight more quickly than you? And without even trying!
Totally, utterly unfair and annoying, right?
It's not just your experience. It's an actual phenomenon.
There are a number of reasons why this happens - which is what this article is all about - but the bottom line is that men and women need different weight loss solutions. I'll tell you about that too.
Reason 1: Women carry more fat. Men have more muscle
Thanks to differences in body composition, women are at a disadvantage right out of the gate because we naturally carry more fat than men. Men have more muscle mass, and muscle is metabolically “expensive” to keep. That means it uses up energy – and that’s calories to you and me - even when at rest while fat does not. Muscles burn considerably more calories than fat, making the male metabolism 3-10% faster than yours. No surprise then that in studies, men are consistently found to do better on the exact same diet a woman might follow.
Yep, there it is!
Then there's where you store the fat. Mother nature has distributed body fat in different ways. In women, it mainly sits on the hips and bum, where it serves as a vital store, for example for pregnancy. In men, fat tends to accumulate around the belly.
Reason 2: Menopause makes it harder to lose weight
During menopause, women lose even more muscle and some bone mass, which increases their body fat percentage.
On top of that, a redistribution takes place. The padding on hips and bum reduces, while belly fat increases. The female figure changes from “pear” to “apple” because male hormones such as testosterone, which are present in the female body also, become more dominant post-menopause.
Reason 3: You need a new weight-loss strategy if you're a woman over 40
If you're in the peri-menopause/menopause territory, you need an entirely different solution because the old tricks just won't work any more. This free guide I wrote can help get you started with that.
Reason 4: Menopausal weight distribution mucks up your hormones & causes inflammation
If you are overweight, you are better off carrying your weight around the thighs and bum rather than the belly. Abdominal fat is a lot more metabolically active and produces not only hormones – which, among other things, further affect weight, weight distribution and hunger – but also inflammatory compounds.
When your body is inflamed, you often feel puffy and bleugh.
You may also feel it in your joints or notice a worsening of other health symptoms.
This visceral belly fat is unhealthier as it promotes inflammation, increasing the risk for heart attack and stroke, but we know from studies that it is lost more quickly than fat from the hips.
This puts overweight men at risk sooner than overweight women. Yet ironically, while doctors tend to advise overweight women to lose weight as soon as their BMI passes the ‘healthy’ 25 mark, they rarely ask men to lose weight until their blood pressure and cholesterol readings are already off the scale. This is despite the fact that 68% of British men are overweight or obese as opposed to 60% of women.
There’s clearly bias at work here!
Reason 5: Women think they're fat sooner & diet earlier than men
Society’s pressure on women to look good means that their excess weight registers much sooner than that of men. Friends and family, too, are less likely to comment on a man’s weight than on that of a woman. If that wasn’t enough, girls and women often dislike their figure. I know you will have been in this space. We all have.... wishing for a slimmer waistline before we are even overweight.
Most women have been on their first diet before an objective need because they perceived themselves as “too fat”. For many, this first diet – often at a very young age – sets them on a path to yo-yo dieting.
Low-calorie crash diets can lead to rapid weight loss at first, but the body reacts to this “famine” by downregulating energy expenditure. As a result, the rapid weight loss soon slows down and may even grind to a halt, even though the dieter eats less and less.
The minimum number of calories we need at rest is called “basal metabolic rate” (BMR). It is already higher for men due to their greater muscle mass. By following crash diet after crash diet, many women gradually decrease their BMR further and further, not losing or even gaining weight while eating fewer and fewer calories.
"If a man goes on a diet at all, it is often much later in life. Their BMR is intact, and they have that extra muscle, making it relatively easy for them to lose weight."
Reason 6: Women do the wrong exercise for weight loss
For men, exercise is central to weight loss. Men often succeed by motivating themselves with challenges, such as a marathon, a triathlon or the three peaks. Also, they don’t mind lifting weights at the gym.
Women, on the other hand, tend to worry about accumulating too much bulk, going for endurance exercise instead. While that’s great for stamina, heart health and mood, it doesn’t do much for weight loss. Building muscle really is key here, and if you want to lose weight and increase your BMR, resistance exercise is crucial.
And there’s more injustice…
According to a 2009 study, the “hunger hormone” ghrelin spikes after a workout in women, while leptin, which tells the brain that you’re full, plummets. Been to the gym and then eaten back all the 'good work'? This is why.
Not so in men. So post-workout, women tend to eat more, which puts them at risk of gaining weight – the exact opposite of what most women are trying to achieve!
Men don’t experience this same hormonal fluctuation. Researchers are not sure why that is. They can only speculate, and one theory is that it’s the female body’s way to avoid energy deficits to preserve fertility and perpetuate the species. In the female body, a lack of calories suppresses ovulation and hormones that make reproduction possible.
But physiology is not all.
Reason 7: Women are more likely to be emotional eaters
There are also mental elements that vary between men and women. Of course, there are some generalisations here, and there are always exceptions to the rule, but these are the findings of research papers looking into eating behaviours.
Men are more likely to overeat than women. They are less likely to cook, whether that’s due to time constraints or a lack of skill or interest. Unless home-cooked meals are provided for them, many men reach for junk foods. They are not just convenient but also highly palatable and easy to overeat – in fact, they are designed for us to overconsume them!
Women who eat too much tend to go for those foods as well, but for different reasons. In stressful situations, they reach for food that will activate the reward centre in the brain particularly well and fast. That means foods that contain a lot of fat and sugar.
In the short term, such foods provide satisfaction, but in the long run, they increase the risk of developing diabetes, heart disease and dementia. It’s a kind of self-medication of the brain in an attempt to briefly dampen the constant firing of stress hormones.
Again, hormonal fluctuations play a significant role. You might beat yourself up about lacking willpower but body chemistry is near impossible to beat. It always wins!
Successful weight loss programmes for women, therefore, address the problem both from a physiological as well as a psychological point of view.
When I'm working with clients, I want them to eat the right nutrients to balance their hormones naturally. But we also work on reducing stressors in everyday life and the negative emotions triggered by stress, which lead to eating binges.
In my programmes, self-care, stress relief and relaxation are an important pillar.
The food piece is important but then the whole rest of your life and how good it feels to be you is just as important...
Eating is supposed to be fun. A simple plan is needed, not one that would make life even more complicated and stressful. My plans are created with that in mind. They are flexible, the recipes are quick and easy to make and popular with everyone in the family.
For a man who wants to lose weight, information and a pack of quick and easy recipes is often enough.
For women, it is not that simple. You might already know what a healthy diet should look like and probably you don’t mind cooking. But you might need more support to combat emotional eating and manage stress.
Women also tend to enjoy the exchange with a group of like-minded people and benefit from coaching – whether that’s in a group or as an individual – even more than men.
So, if you have had the suspicion that men are having an easier time of weight loss than women, you are absolutely right. By knowing this, you can tailor your weight loss journey according to your needs without being fazed by the results of the men around you.
My programmes are designed with women in mind. I don’t just provide quick and yummy recipes, but also the coaching support women need to change their relationship with food for good. If you're wondering whether this is for you, set up a free call to get started. Nothing to lose, so much to gain. You can do that here.
Comments